• YeahIgotskills2@lemmy.world
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    The reactions and opinions people have on this subject only reinforce my belief that, as individuals, we really have very little idea what’s going on in other people’s heads when it comes to sexuality.

    As a heterosexual man, it’s difficult for me to imagine having a perfectly ordinary body part that the majority of the opposite sex found so sexually fascinating they’d have to consciously resist the desire to flat-out gaze at my chest.

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        Most guys wear baggy clothes I guess. I imagine if someone was wearing tight pants then it would catch my eye as a curiosity, but to my personal taste male junk is kind of mundane and lumpy. Almost comedic. Whereas almost every set of boobies holds a weirdly primal allure for me - and it’s only thanks to the miracle of social programming that I don’t just glitch out and mindlessly gaze in wonder.

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    4 days ago

    Honestly doesn’t even register any more. They’re massive, they dominate the landscape. Your eye is drawn by the gravity. It happens

    Hell, my own grandmother confessed to me once after we ran into each other at a shopping centre her first thought was “good lord that woman has large breasts” and then she saw my face and recognised me.

  • Lumisal@lemmy.world
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    Summary of comments:

    Everywhere from “STARE I even make the shirt see through” to “one glance max, a bit annoying if professionally dressed tho”

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    4 days ago

    As a man who like boobs of all sizes, I can’t help but glance sometimes. You are all beautiful. Sorry, not sorry.

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    4 days ago

    My wife has big boobs. Sometimes she shows them off on purpose, but even when she doesn’t, they’re big and round and nice to look at. She says if people are going to look, at least be inconspicuous about it and not stare.

    That said, I know other women who have felt cursed by their big boobs because everywhere they go, they’re ogled without their consent. Which is also fair. Just because some women are okay with it, doesn’t mean I’m entitled to check everyone out.

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    Very different depending on how I have dressed. High collar or sweater or professional wear, I think you are aweful. Low-cut shirt, bikini, cute outfit, I’m expecting and tolerating you. I only get happy when it’s my boyfriend staring.

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    a quick glance? no worries, I’m a lesbian and am certainly guilty of the same. repeated glances or staring is rude and absolutely changes how I treat you in a pretty negative way.

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    4 days ago

    I worked hard enough to get them, I’m glad when anyone looks at them! Most people don’t though because they’re not very big

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    I’m small of bust, but therefore don’t bra often (except at work) so occasionally get a look, I am neither flattered nor offended. I work on my body but boobs are just luck or money, not an accomplishment.

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    Bold to assume anyone can avoid looking at my tranny rack. What do I do when they don’t look is the better question. Yeah, go look, pervs.

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    Just look at it. Adore it. It is your life and nobody can dictate you how to live it. don’t touch them though