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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • Some folks I know are organizing a charity auction. I felt like I should donate something; it’s for a good cause. So I went through my fabric stash and box of patterns, and decided to donate a tie and some stuffed animals.

    So now I need to sew a tie and some stuffed animals. I’ve cut out the tie pieces already (ties are super easy, it turns out!) but I’m still working through the many tiny pieces I need to make a godzilla stuffy.

    The good news is that this has given me the motivation to actually start on the godzilla stuffy project. I’ve promised a godzilla stuffy to my kid for christmas (so am making at least two), but I’ve just been procrastinating starting because that’s months away.



  • This excerpt explains a lot: The autistic pattern of expounding at length on a topic of personal interest, aka infodumping, also arises from these occult grammar rules. If an autistic person knows a lot about a subject, then they have a social obligation to share that information.

    In many autistic spaces online and in meatspace, these communication norms can emerge organically and result in very productive and pleasant interactions between autistic people (and allists who have learned to participate in the autistic mode of communication).

    However, when viewed through the lens of allistic communication norms, these conversations can appear to be a relentless assault of posturing, dominance, combative interruption, nitpicking of minutiae, and a stubborn refusal to provide even the most basic human care for one another.