• Canopyflyer@lemmy.world
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    9 hours ago

    Irrespective if the meaning has been reversed over the years.

    What most people miss about this saying is… IT GOES BOTH WAYS.

    If someone mistreats you and uses their blood relationship to you as an excuse, then that is not a member of your family. Family supports and goes through things together. Friends can become family. At this stage of my life, I have cut off my entire blood relations due to their toxic and stupid behavior. My family is the woman I married, my kids, and a few choice friends.