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Cake day: April 22nd, 2024

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  • We are all mortal and will be forgotten someday.

    This shouldn’t be a cause for concern, but a liberating fact. You are free to live your life the way you want to. If you are enjoying the lifestyle you are currently living, you shouldn’t feel ashamed of it. There is no set path for life that everyone is required to follow.

    If you are feeling alone, unfortunately, you will need to sift through various social groups to find one that clicks with you. It takes time and effort, but most good things do. There are other places to go than bars and parties. If you go to volunteer events, you are much more likely to find people who look beyond themselves.







  • Enjoy your time, different people go through life at different speeds. Be considerate of other people, but if you are enjoying your time alone, do that.

    Once you have had your fill, you will know. I spent a good decade or so without any friends, aside from some family members. I enjoyed my time engaging with my hobbies. At some point I knew I felt alone and wanted to change that. Now I am actively looking for those connections and going to more events to find them.

    Keep in mind, the more you learn about red flags, the easier you can avoid “fake friends”. Nobody is perfect, but if somebody takes every chance they get to shit on minorites or people they see as ‘weird’, they probably won’t hesitate to do that about you.

    I would recommend having at least one person you can trust or confide in to help you stay mentally healthy. Either somebody you are close to or a therapist.