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I like city building games and puzzles. I like other things as well, but that’s not important right now.


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Cake day: November 12th, 2025

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  • I spiritually felt like an adult at 16, which was also the traditional age of majority here, but then i moved back in with my parents to do university and felt less and less like an adult

    I’m definitely more fond of the idea it’s a different age for different people. I started puberty early and always felt other people my age were out of step with me - people like me physically and mentally become adults sooner than other people. (But we shouldn’t try and use this in regards to consent laws or drinking age, of course)

    But the most important consideration is if you treat people well and do things on your own initiative.






  • I think it’s a shitty thing to do long term unless your child has disabilities (in which case a school accomodating them is better).

    Send your kid where they choose to go, it’ll probably be school where their friends are.

    I, already being pretty awkward as a child, cannot imagine trying to unlearn awkwardness after suddenly changing to public schooling. Might even have the opposite problem, showing too much energy when interacting with people i don’t know well.

    Definitely DEFINITELY don’t do it for primary (elementary) school age.



  • That’s interesting, and I agree. My parents didn’t let me eat hamburgers until i was like 15 or 17 and they reinforced this idea that they were just magically really unhealthy because places like mcdonalds sold them (i also met other people kids who were given the same programming lol).

    They therefore looked pretty gross to me, and i remember at 11 y.o. telling my parents in disgust that I saw our neighbour eating a hamburger at lunch. It genuinely symbolised greed and disregsrd of health to me that much. I think that was probably the first time they realised they went overboard with the health programming.

    Hotdogs are undeniably quite gross-looking if they’re the packet brought plastic-y stuff. But I LOVE THEM.

    As for curry - I didn’t get offered it until I was 11 and it was a little hard to get past how it looked but luckily I was in the “I’m going to stop being a picky eater!” Phase. Nowadays the smell of food matters way more than the look, and curry is obviously perfect for that.