I’m a straight dude. IMO, I should be just as welcome at a “gay” bar as “gay” folks are at any other place. I’ve been chatted up respectfully by dudes in gay bars and had a “twink” try to shove his hands down my pants (and a few experiences between). The former is how people of all genders should be treated at all bars. Sure, it’s more likely that you’ll get chatted by a dude at a gay bar, but believe it or not, the last guy that asked me out was at a decidedly NOT gay bar.
Yeah, sorry for having an opinion on the internet that is adjacent to the topic. I’m assuming the downvotes are because people think gay people should be unwelcome at “non-gay” establishments.
I’m a straight dude. IMO, I should be just as welcome at a “gay” bar as “gay” folks are at any other place. I’ve been chatted up respectfully by dudes in gay bars and had a “twink” try to shove his hands down my pants (and a few experiences between). The former is how people of all genders should be treated at all bars. Sure, it’s more likely that you’ll get chatted by a dude at a gay bar, but believe it or not, the last guy that asked me out was at a decidedly NOT gay bar.
You were not asked by op, though.
Yeah, sorry for having an opinion on the internet that is adjacent to the topic. I’m assuming the downvotes are because people think gay people should be unwelcome at “non-gay” establishments.
You’re assuming too much.