• knuk@piefed.ca
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    I’m about to move and it’s such shit it’s making me depressed. I can’t find anyone to rent my current place so I might be stuck paying for two places. Packing everything takes so much time. Cleaning up whatever shows behind the furniture for whoever comes next, cleaning up the place we’re moving to, disassembling and reassembling some of the larger furniture. Losing whatever few friends I managed to make in a city to go somewhere where I know nobody. Losing access to all the cool places I knew about to go somewhere that seemingly has none of them. Dealing with changing the address on every place that might send me mail, knowing I won’t get everything and I’ll have to deal with trying to find lost mail after. Trying to find a new vet for my senior dog who needs monthly injections when none of the vets take new clients. Moving is shit.

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        You’re being kinda rude. Those are legit problems. My move put me in a clearly better place but it took a lot.of work

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        I rarely pull out the oven, fridge, dishwasher, dryer and washer to clean under or behind them, how often would you do it?

        I love to go to the doctor but I only get to see them when my health issues get me hospitalized. Last time it was over a hundred gallstones and pancreatitis, doctors told me it was stomach acid until I turned visibly yellow.

        And I’m moving because my partner finally found a near minimum wage job in his industry after years of research.

        Yeah being an adult kinda sucks.

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          I rarely pull out the oven, fridge, dishwasher, dryer and washer to clean under or behind them, how often would you do it?

          you should be doing this every few months, especially to prevent mice/bugs. I deep clean my home every 4-6 months. It’s like 4-6 hours of work.

          I love to go to the doctor but I only get to see them when my health issues get me hospitalized. Last time it was over a hundred gallstones and pancreatitis, doctors told me it was stomach acid until I turned visibly yellow.

          you should be going once a year at a minimum, more if you have chronic health issues.

          OK, you hate being an adult. That’s cool. I don’t. I love it. I like cleaning under my fridge because I take pride in having a clean living space.

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              the fact you think i’m bragging about basic adulthood is just wild, and very telling about your mentality. nobody said it was wrong or right, either, you brought that binary to this.

              but pretty classic. fedi users seem to think having to like pay for a video game, is some violation of their rights as human beings, so it would track they think basic functioning as a human adult is also a violation of their rights.

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        Do you also hate having to go to the doctor or something?

        I promise you everyone hates that