Wheel of Time is an incredible experience, if you ever get to it and like it (especially the last few books) I’d also recommend Brandon Sanderson’s first era of Mistborn books! The second era gets a bit too convoluted imo

No, I’d say there’s a difference. It’s like someone who likes all colors vs. someone who’s colorblind.

I remember listening to an audiobook about Bisexuality some time ago that used a unique but very logical set of definitions. Those were:

• Straight: attracted to gender(s) that are not the same as yours
• Gay: attracted to gender(s) that are the same as yours
• Bi: attracted to gender(s) that are yours as well as gender(s) that are not yours
• Pan: Attraction is independent of gender

So someone who isn’t Nonbinary being attracted to someone who is NB could still count as Straight by that definition. You could also count an Enby as straight if they’re attracted to both male and female presenting people, but not other Enbies.
But honestly, it’s just a fun framework and people should be able to describe themselves however they like. The semantics of their category doesn’t really matter after all.

So that leads us into the actual question: would you be willing to take a job where you pretty much just train men on how to act around/ treat women?

Nope, hard pass. Never been into the social field myself, because it’s full of bullshit jobs. What would make this one any different than any of those “Life coach” jobs that promise to teach you all the secrets that will instantly fix you, as long as you have the money to keep paying for that “wisdom”?
Reality is, there is no single proven way to treat women. And if anyone claims that there is and they know it, it’s a scam.