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  • cRazi_man@europe.pubtoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.world*Permanently Deleted*
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    4 days ago

    My sleep habits got messed up as a teenager and I’ve struggled a lot to fix it over the years, without success. I want to aim to get 7 hours. I end up with an average of 6:30. This doesn’t sound too bad, but it is. At the end of every 2 weeks the sleep deficit is a full night’s missed sleep. Over the past year I have a 90 hour deficit (as if I’ve completely missed almost 13 nights sleep).

    I used to live off 4 to 5 hours after my first kid. It’s no way to live. It’s like being on drugs, you might not realise what a bad hole you’re in till you come out of it. It’s one of the biggest determinants to good health. Once you start sleeping well consistently, your experience of everything on life will be so much better when your brain doesn’t have a constant fatigue haze. This takes weeks of good sleep to recover from (not 2 nights of good sleep after months of terrible sleep).





  • You don’t need much to self host and don’t let people online gatekeep or exclude you or intimidate you with complex racks. An old PC repurposed to a home server gets you started and is enough for a lot of stuff. You can always expand as needed in the future.

    Here’s my setup:

    Storage is on a NAS: synology 2 bay NAS with 8TB (media: photos, movies, TV shows, books, comics) and 2 TB HDD (Kopia backup snapshots). I don’t need RAID configurations. Important data is already 3-2-1 backed up and if an HDD fails then I’ll just replace it when I get to that point.

    Server: Headless mini PC with Debian with a 12th gen intel, 16gb ram, 1tb NVME (mostly live data, shared folder, game saves, etc). I’m building a new machine and have yet to decide if I want to replace the server or use that as a gaming machine, but the has a Core 5 Ultra 125H processor and LPDDR5 RAM and is super power efficient and silent.

    Docker containers:

    • actual (budgeting)

    • affine (note taking)

    • bentopdf (PDF editing)

    • beszel (server status monitoring)

    • dockge (Docker management)

    • guacamole (server remote desktop access)

    • immich (photo application, backup, gallery and Al tagging)

    • jellyfin (video and music server)

    • jotty (quick notes and task/shopping lists)

    • kavita (comic books and ebooks)

    • kopia (backups)

    • floccus (bookmark backup and sync across browsers)

    • mattermost (used solo for sharing text, links, files, etc to myself)

    • papra (document scanning and OCR)

    • opodsync (gpodder podcast sync backend)

    • prunemate (automated scheduled docker pruning)

    • samba (file sharing on the local netwrok)

    • syncthing (mostly used to keep retro/emulated games in sync across devices)

    • tiny tiny rss (RSS platform)

    • vpn-torrent-stack (conatining gbittorrent, prowlarr, flaresolverr, radarr, sonarr, all running through gluetun VPN on a VPN server)

    • watchtower (automatic docker updates)

    Synology Cloud Sync sends the Kopia backup snapshots to my Backblaze online storage and also keeps a local folder synced with my Mailbox.org cloud drive.

    Synology also handles the reverse proxy access.