Well put. Often a single well said response will make OP come across better than endless arguing too. So if they want to change other’s minds, staying above the fray is the way to go.

I see a lot of “just don’t” comments in here which doesn’t seem very helpful.

What are you afraid will happen if you don’t correct the wrong comment? Let’s start there.

Life won’t happen on your schedule.

(Meaning be patient and don’t beat yourself up if things aren’t happening as fast as you want)