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As far as I understand, “saving it for marriage” doesn’t usually preclude couple seeing each other naked and having other forms of sexual contact.

The argument makes sense for arranged marriages and stuff like that, yeah. But makes no sense for what I think is most common which is “my penis cannot go inside your vagina until we’re married, take that God”.

You can always learn. It’s not like sexual prowess is innate.

I fucked like a jackrabbit before marriage so it’s not my cup of tea, but I do have to laugh at the “what if they’re bad in bed” arguments…communicate and put some effort in.