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Cake day: May 30th, 2024

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  • Escaping your “comfort zone” and going into the unfamiliar is definitely something that will help to build yourself away from your parents. Don’t put yourself in dangerous situations for that though.

    I think the moments that influenced my life the most and made me feel like I’m an adult and not my parent’s child anymore were the ones that took me way out of my comfort zone (WOOFFing far away, sleeping in a stranger’s garden shelter (I don’t recommend that), quitting the job I was “meant to have”, having a child (the most opposite of comfort zone), …)

    Edit: obviously, as others said, don’t take this for a good life advice. Life has been nice to me (I’m a white cis male so I’m not subject to danger as much as other parts of the society) and I haven’t had any huge problems going out of my comfort zone, but this might not be the case for everyone so I’m really not pushing you to put yourself in danger. Before moving out you should be absolutely sure you’re not putting yourself in a dangerous situation. You could try to live some days there first for example.

    Anyway, good luck with your situation!