The age I am today (mid 30s). I’ve been dealing with depression basically my whole life, and while I’ve never been actively suicidal, I never really had a knack for planning years into the future because I figured for some reason or another I wouldn’t be here, so what was the point? I’m doing a little better; these days my mentality is more “I’ve made it this far, might as well continue.” I give myself little things to look forward to.
It’s kind of funny to me that this question popped up, because my best friend and I were talking about this just last night lol.
My brother in law. Dude is a lazy pos who barely takes care of his kid and complains about everything. He does nothing to make my sister’s life easier, she does all of the housework, childcare, grocery shopping, cooking, cleaning, etc. She’s starting to slowly stand up for herself though, which is good. I’ve already said my piece to her, so she knows I’m waiting on the sidelines with a shovel if need be.