• Lovable Sidekick@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    Might want to edit your first line, where you say you’re devastated that a trucker gets paid almost as much as a software dev. You resolve this as you go on, but I’m surprised you’re not getting more kneejerk douchevotes from people who scan the first line and just infer the rest in the most negative way possible.

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      2 days ago

      It was intentional. A sign of a skilled writer, even. Irony works.

      (Even if it does undercut the trucker roommate a bit. The double irony of privilege.)

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        Not sure how you know what was intentional without being the writer, but ok.

        edit: based on the douchevotes, a lot of lemmites either believe in psychic powers or don’t realize comments have usernames.

        • PapaStevesy@lemmy.world
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          Because we all read the post their comment was responding to and understood quickly & easily that they were setting up the same reversal of expectations as the lineman in the OP. Context my friend, context.

            • k0e3@lemmy.ca
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              You could tell they aren’t using the first line as a rhetorical device because their username is Leon?

              • Lovable Sidekick@lemmy.world
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                No, I could tell one person didn’t write the comment they were making a pronouncement about because the two comments had different usernames. I did assume it wasn’t one peson using two accounts, so my bad.

                • k0e3@lemmy.ca
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                  OK. So how does that help with you knowing OP didn’t write it like that on purpose?

                  See all those upvotes OP is getting? It means people understood why he wrote “devastated” because they read the entire comment. I think your heart was in the right place, but in the end your concern was completely unwarranted. It’s a shame you got downvoted just for caring about OP’s wellbeing :(

                  • Lovable Sidekick@lemmy.world
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                    23 hours ago

                    I don’t get why all these questions and challenges are necessary - it was just a minor editorial criticism and then a reply to somebody claiming to know what the writer was thinking. Have it any way you guys want.

        • podian@piefed.social
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          How do I “know” that you have a mind and have conscious experiences and aren’t just a zombie?

          For arguments sake let’s say I don’t “know.” But I can still assume so. I wrote and write under the assumption that such is the case then and now.

          Does one need to know x–whatever “know” means–to state “that x”?

          I don’t believe so, certainly not as a blanket rule. Do you? Is that why the standard was applied to what I wrote?

          A can of worms. What’s the point? Plenty abound in backyards, internet forums (elsewhere), and politicians’ brains apparently.

          Ultimately, the bar–or standard of proof–for acknowledgement and praise, which could have been reasonably inferred from my comment, is low. E.g., when a student does well on a test (in-person, lol), we do not need to “know” that they are perspicacious or precocious. Nor do we need to “know” that they didn’t cheat or simply “guessed” and got lucky. Regardless of (or even in spite of) experience or plausibility, I strongly hold that it is by default fine to assume they did a good job and are a good student. That’s good faith.

          How can anyone make friends or have a good life without having some good faith for “strangers,” even if that “vulnerability” can be abused from time to time?

          Good luck on the path ahead.

    • Virtvirt588@lemmy.world
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      I understand what you mean, but it seems like this post is filled with people that are willing to engage rather than be judgemental. Like the other person said, it is a sign of a good writer - to engage with the readers.

      Of course, there are other cases within this site where people are jerks, but in this case you gotta understand that your own anger is spilling into situations where the only jerk is you.