Honestly this seems more like goals.

I like sweeping my floor and making cupcakes. If I had a wife that also enjoyed doing so, that would be nice. Oh, the floors we could sweep together ! The mountains of cupcakes we could make…

I think it’s okay for ambition to turn into calm happiness.

That does not mean you lost anything.

What is ambition for if it never brings you contentment?

The downvoter is either the witch eithet the wizard (if there are more soon, it’s both and the clients they didn’t please).