People who are constantly told their affinity for predicability and structure is the source of their stress and the need to try being more flexible and open 😬
Some helpful advice: advice is highly personal. What might help another person might be useless to you, and what might be perfect for you might be useless to another.
Seek advice from someone who understands you, and when someone who doesn’t understand you offers useless advice, don’t take it personally. Understand that they love you and leave it at that. what’s important is that they were trying to help.
Untangle the mess later, because as you age, you find that true friends are both rare and special. Worth overlooking a few faults, especially as you realize a few of your own faults that you hope/are grateful that they also overlook.
Who the hell goes on vacation without a schedule? How is anyone supposed to relax unless they have every day planned down to the minute?
And people wonder why I’m a hollowed out husk before 50.
People who are constantly told their affinity for predicability and structure is the source of their stress and the need to try being more flexible and open 😬
Nothing makes me feel more relaxed than knowing exactly what’s going to happen next.
Yeah, me too. I have only recently come to understand that most common advice is useless at best, harmful at worst.
Some helpful advice: advice is highly personal. What might help another person might be useless to you, and what might be perfect for you might be useless to another.
Seek advice from someone who understands you, and when someone who doesn’t understand you offers useless advice, don’t take it personally. Understand that they love you and leave it at that. what’s important is that they were trying to help.
Untangle the mess later, because as you age, you find that true friends are both rare and special. Worth overlooking a few faults, especially as you realize a few of your own faults that you hope/are grateful that they also overlook.