When my dad was teaching me how to ride a bike, I would make it so far and then fall down.
I couldn’t figure out how to control the bicycle and myself, and every single little bump in the road, I would lose control of the bike.
After the third or fourth time my dad picked me up and dusted me off, and he placed a hand on my shoulder and he said, “Look son, you rule the road. Don’t let the road rule you.”
And I don’t know what magic there is in that phrase, but immediately after hearing that, I could ride a bicycle.
And it’s not just me. I later on encountered a kid who was learning how to ride a bike, and he kept falling over. And I looked at him and I said, “I’ll tell you what my dad told me. You rule the road. Don’t let the road rule you.”
A few days later, I saw his little, like, I don’t know, seven-year-old self riding a freaking full-grown adult 10-speed mountain bike and pulling tricks when just three or four days prior he was falling down on a huffy.
When my dad was teaching me how to ride a bike, I would make it so far and then fall down.
I couldn’t figure out how to control the bicycle and myself, and every single little bump in the road, I would lose control of the bike.
After the third or fourth time my dad picked me up and dusted me off, and he placed a hand on my shoulder and he said, “Look son, you rule the road. Don’t let the road rule you.”
And I don’t know what magic there is in that phrase, but immediately after hearing that, I could ride a bicycle.
And it’s not just me. I later on encountered a kid who was learning how to ride a bike, and he kept falling over. And I looked at him and I said, “I’ll tell you what my dad told me. You rule the road. Don’t let the road rule you.”
A few days later, I saw his little, like, I don’t know, seven-year-old self riding a freaking full-grown adult 10-speed mountain bike and pulling tricks when just three or four days prior he was falling down on a huffy.
Vetoing learned-helplessness is effective…
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